Sunday, May 20, 2018

Methods Of Conversing With Your Husband Hard Of Hearing

By Nancy Walker


At times, we are born with all our senses working. Over time, or with old age, some of the senses like hearing and seeing to fail. At other time they just fail without reason. Sometimes we just have to live with the condition we find ourselves in. Sometimes, it is our friends or loved ones suffering from such conditions. Below are tips on how to communicate to a husband hard of hearing.

You should always be considerate. Before you talk, get the attention of the person you are aiming to talk to. This gives them a chance to get ready to understand what it is you are going to say to them. Keep in mind that unlike hearing people, they need to put a lot of effort into concentrating so that they can be able to understand what you are saying.

Sometimes when you speak, a person may not be able to understand you. Therefore, you need to be facing them so that they are able to read your lips and fill I the blanks of what they could not understand. As you face them, avoid habits like chewing, moving around and covering your mouth while you are talking.

Speaking gibberish makes it hard for anyone to understand what you are saying. This will be a lot more difficult for a person with hearing problems. It is, therefore, to enunciate in your speech so that the sounds they hear can make sense to them. It is also important you speak at a steady speed. This gives them a shot at lip reading.

As you already know, concentration is key in order to communicate to a person experiencing difficulty in hearing. Therefore, the background noise should be kept to a minimum. For example, the fan should be kept low or even the AC. If you are going out, you should make a point of choosing a corner booth that is well lit up for the person to read your lips.

Many are times while groups of friend decide to spend time together. In such a case, be mindful of the person who has difficulty hearing. Make sure that you are in a well light place and the person can hear whatever it is you are saying. Make sure you take turns in speaking otherwise it will be quite hard for them to get what is being said.

You should be ready to repeat and or rephrase what you say. The person may not hear what you say on the first few tries but you should not tire of repeating whatever you are trying to say. If repeating does not work, try rephrasing the comment or question. Other words may be easier for the person to hear. You can also try spelling out the hard to hear the word.

You want the person to be comfortable around you. When you have a hard time understanding each other, you can look at the positive side and make fun of it. This will make you more comfortable with each other.




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